I'm not using the phrase "sexual abuse" in a flippant way here. Workplace power dynamics can make sexual relationships improper, but rarely rise to the level of abuse. But this story is classic sexual abuse. It's about using your power to humiliate someone. It's the kind of thing that a pimp would do to a prostitute. It reminded me of a recent Israeli art film about a woman whose boyfriend abuses her in this way. I can't for the life of me remember what it's called...